We've all been there. You're feeling down, maybe a little lonely, and you think to yourself, "I know what will make me feel better, my Pussy! She needs a little taste of chocolate." So, you treat yourself to a whole box of chocolates, some are dark and some are white and some are even in the middle; only to find that some of them are just not what you were hoping for. They're too sweet, or too bitter, or just plain old unappealing.
Well, my friends, the same thing can happen when you're trying to fill an emotional void with a little something extra on the side. You think, "I'll just sleep with this person, and it will make me feel better." But, just like that box of chocolates, sometimes, you end up with a dud and maybe a tummy ache. I've had my fair share of "chocolate" experiences, and let me tell you, it's not always a pleasant experience. There was the time I slept with the guy who turned out to be married. Or the time I slept with the guy who turned out to be a total creep. And let's not forget the time I slept with the guy who was just, well, bad in bed.
But just like that box of chocolates, you can't give up on cocao All together. just because you've had a few bad experiences. You keep going, keep trying, and eventually, you'll find that perfect piece of chocolate (or in this case, that perfect person) that will make everything feel just a little bit better.
So, if you're feeling down and thinking about sleeping with the wrong person today to fill that void, just remember, it's like a box of chocolates - you never know what you're gonna get. But, hey, at least you'll have a good story to tell your friends. And who knows, maybe you'll even find that one piece of chocolate that's just perfect.
5 Ways to get over fu*king the wrong person when grieving
Practice self-compassion: It's important to be kind and understanding to yourself in situations like this. Recognize that it's okay to make mistakes, and that you're human. Don't beat yourself up about what happened.
Talk to someone you trust: Reach out to a friend, family member, or therapist and talk about your feelings. Sometimes simply talking about what happened and your emotions can help you process and move on.
Reflect on your values: Take some time to think about what is truly important to you in a relationship, and what kind of person you want to be with. This can help you gain clarity and perspective.
Take care of yourself: Practice self-care activities like exercise, eating well, getting enough sleep, and doing things you enjoy. This can help boost your mood and self-esteem.
Set boundaries: It's important to set boundaries with the person you slept with to prevent further hurt or confusion. This may include cutting off contact or communicating your feelings and intentions clearly. Remember, you have the right to prioritize your own well-being.
Always remember that even in the darkness of your mourning, your life is still glorious.
Love,
Aleksei ❤️